There are a lot of people out there that are still unsure about whether having sex before marriage is right or wrong. I have to tell you all that it is very very WRONG.... People might say, so what? I like la. Its not whether you like it or not, its whether you will infect people with HPV, HIV or STDs or not. You think its fun? Go ahead, screw up your life. Being a candidate for the NO APOLOGIES seminar twice, one in my church and another time in my school has really nailed the word ABSTINENCE in my mind. What is abstinence?

Abstinence means you stay away or you resist somethin that you know is wrong. Many people tend to do things eventhough they know it is wrong. Why? Because they think its enjoyable but I tell you this attitude will lead you nowhere but Hell. Where is the value of marriage if everyone can sleep with more that 1 partner? Where is the sense of security. Nobody said sex is bad but it is only meant for marriage. Abortion cases are on the rise. Youngsters getting AIDS, a girl getting a child at the age of 11.

Why does all these things have to happen? If one can abstain from this, none of this would happen. But if you still think it is such an enjoyable thing or you don't give a damn about it, I'm sorry to say that you have jolly well screwed up your ambitions and other people's ambitions too. Marriage is a commitment between two people. A bonding that is NOT to be broken. There is when losing your virginity to someone that will be with you till you go 6 feet under means the most to you. It is the most satisfying and beautiful thing because both have SEXUALLY ABSTAINED from temptations and did not cheat on each other.

So, give a thought about it. Still think having sex with your partner and betting your future on ther piece of rubber is ok? Think again for you, for yourself and for your future children. I suggest if any of you are interested to join the No Apologies program, please click here.

ABSTINENCE, IT WORKS EVERYTIME.